The pressure to perform well in bed is getting wiser. Anything less than an hour of doing the do and people will say you’re not strong enough. From lasting long in bed to how big your gbola is, the pressure is always there.
But how many of these yardsticks for a “strong man” are actually true? Let’s find out
The longer the sex, the better you are
It’s also a myth that the ideal duration is 3 minutes or one hour. Your partner may want to cum before you do, or they might need more time to get there. The only thing important here is the experience itself, not how long it takes for either of you to reach orgasm (or come back from it).
It’s not about winning or losing; it’s about having fun with each other. There are no winners or losers in sex—it’s all about enjoying yourselves! But if you come immediately you insert, then there is definitely a problem because nobody is satisfied – both you and your spouse, so you quickly need to solve the problem before it gets worse.
Size matters, but it’s not the only thing that matters.
A lot of men meet me on daily basis and ask me to help them to increase their manhood so that it becomes so big but the truth is that size matters, but it’s not the only thing that matters.
Did you know that most women don’t orgasm from penetrative sex?
In fact, it’s not even the most important factor in determining whether or not you have a healthy relationship with your partner. It is more about how both of you talk about it with one another—and what those conversations entail.
“It’s important that people understand that size doesn’t equal pleasure,” says Dr. Durbin Sayer of The Centre for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis (IUPUI). “A lot of men think they’re going to get off if their partner has big boobs or big genitals, but there are other ways to achieve arousal besides just looking at something.”
Spiritual attack from an unforgiving ex
So you did your ex dirty and she promised to make you impotent. Now, you’re struggling to last long or even get your third leg up and running and you think it’s her?
My guy, relax.
It’s all in your head, no spiritual attack can affect your sexual performance, rather your lifestyle can so fix it up.
Men want sex more than women.
Reality: In the book The Myth of Sex Addiction, author Marty Klein debunks this myth. Men and women actually want sex pretty equally. However, many people think of a man as a rampant sex junkie because they are more likely to admit to having sex when polled. The same could be said of women; they may be ashamed of wanting pleasure and thus might not admit it when questioned, and that is why people say women doesn’t love sex, but Benjamin, the truth is that women loves sex a lot and they can do anything to get satisfied sexually.
Men prefer younger women.
Reality: Men prefer confident, mature women over looks and age. Studies have shown that men are more likely to be physically attracted to a woman before meeting her, meaning that many men settle for attractive women without realizing that they lack personality. In addition, studies show that men are much more likely to cheat on beautiful women with average-looking ones because they desire a good personality and sex drive over looks.
Men want good sex more than emotional connection.
Reality: Men often desire a woman with a strong personality and an active sex life. This means that a man is more likely to fall in love with a confident and emotionally mature woman than one who leaves him guessing about her feelings. In fact, many men have mentioned the importance of emotional connection in their first sexual encounters. It is important for men to realize this because it can prevent them from settling for less just because they want sex.
There you have it, things you think are true that aren’t true. If one of these has been holding you back then it’s time to wake up and move ahead. In our next class which drops tomorrow by exactly 10:00am, we’ll talk about how stress can affect you in bed, till then, stay safe.